As Halloween approaches, many parents are faced with a unique dilemma—how to navigate the world of “sexy” costumes that seem to pop-up in every store, even for kids. Suddenly, a fun holiday full of pumpkins, ghosts, and goblins becomes a more complex situation. This is a prime teachable moment to have an open and honest conversation with your child about what “sexy” means, and how they can love their bodies without feeling pressured to show it off.

Why This Conversation Matters

The word “sexy” is everywhere—in music, movies, advertisements, and even in Halloween costumes. It’s a word that’s often misunderstood, especially by kids. They might hear it and wonder, “What does that even mean?” Instead of avoiding the topic or brushing it off, use this curiosity to your advantage.

When we talk to our kids about the word “sexy,” we’re not just explaining a word. We’re teaching...